Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Thou art with me....excerpt and my thoughts!

First of all I am not taking full credit for this post...the italics will be portions from the book Still Waters and Sky Scrapers.

The world is a scary place. Acts of terrorism make it seem even scarier. But we have a choice. We can withdraw and seek safety in isolation and submit to the fear and terror of what may be, or we can draw strength from the presence of the Shepherd-God and go out into that scary world. We can commit to creating an atmosphere of courage, trust and serenity, out of which the adventure of a new world emerge.

In life there are so many times that we want to fear life, and fear getting our hands dirty into what Christ has set before us....Fear that we will fail, FEAR of the person next to us, or even FEAR of the unknown...but one thing that I am beginning to Grasp is that PSALM 23 is not lying when it say "Thou art with me!"

No matter what we are going through, thoughts of ourselves, friends and relatives dying, loss of job, "YOUR" vote did not result in the president elect, relationship with someone just got cut off, or you are just doing amazing......whatever it is.....HE IS HERE, and is not going anywhere!!

Teens if you are reading this...I want you to know one thing, there is one constant in life, and that is the location of our GOD!!! HERE WITH US...every moment of every day....

So in closing I want you to do an exercise with me!! Close your eyes and out loud say the following:

THOU ART WITH ME
THOU ART WITH ME
THOU ART WITH ME

feel free to post your thoughts in forms of comments!!

Monday, November 10, 2008

Grace...we just don't get it!


Before I get to the blog, I want to give a shout out to probably my only reader, and if you read this, then prove me wrong by leaving a comment!! The BAHOY CLAN….anyways I say the BAHOY CLAN for the whole reason that I can honestly say I did not get what that meant until this last week…man I am ridiculously bright I know. I would send emails to this bahoyclan and finally figured out that it was the Brad and Angie Hoy, Levi and Hannah (as the whole clan) I was like, what are they thinking the bahoy clan, are they pirates or something!! LOL!!! So to Brad and Angie and the fam, sorry I screwed it all up and am now on the right track…TATAVIANO CLAN, that sounds like I am stuttering…ok so now for the BLOG!!
Luke 7
vs. 47 "I tell you, her sins-and they are many-have been forgiven, so she has shown me much love. But a person who is forgiven little only shows little love."

The first thing in the verse is the realization that many sins have been forgiven, not one or two but like a quadrazillion (just made that up, you will not find that in any translation). So the first thing that I realize is that one thing I am good at is sinning, and one of the many things that God is good at is FORGIVENESS (grace). But only realizing that I am a good sinner is not the priority here, the true priority is understanding what God actually did for you! When He was nailed to the cross, He said your name. When He was hanging there he thought of you, and in fact I am pretty sure He died for that sin you will commit tomorrow as well! Now saying that, I am not condoning or encouraging you to continue to live in sin, because I believe that using God like a get out of jail free Monopoly card is wrong!!

Knowing that you are a great sinner is a start in understanding the love that God has for you! If you are in a place of saying that I deserve God’s love then you are in a place that you need to reevaluate where you are at!

After being forgiven for much is when you know how to show tons of love, for if you are only forgiven for a little, then you will just show a “little” love!

Religious people always show little love. They show love if a person deserves it. If they earn their approval they might love and accept a person into their little group.


So if you want to really experience the love that Christ has for you, after you realize you have been forgiven so much, surround yourself with the worst ex-sinners on the planet!!! People that have sinned so much, but have fallen into the arms of Christ and are in need of His grace to cover all of their sins!! Myself being one of them, and because I have been forgiven for so much, is the only reason that I can love people the way that I do!!

Father, help us love people until they ask why, and then keep loving them. Let your grace flow through the love that you have shown us!

Do you show little love or alotta love to those around you? Do you give the same amount of grace to others that you receive from God? Come this Sunday night, and join the discussion!
GRACE….we just don’t get it!

Schedule of the night!
5-7 Middle School Ministry (doors open at 4:15 p.m.)
6-8 High School Ministry (doors open at 5:15 p.m.)
There will be high activity games this Sunday (Dodgeball) so dress ready to run, or at least participate!!
Live Worship (Adam Thayer will lead the worship band) if you would like to join…email me at tug@averagejoesyouth.com and we can discuss your involvement in the worship band
We will begin taking our offering for the GIFTS THAT GIVE CHRISTMAS PROJECT!!

Friday, October 3, 2008

Enjoy the weekend!!

A friday that was spent riding 10 miles on the bike, mowing, cleaning the garage,designing two murals to paint on the girls' wall and then relaxing the rest of the day...to tomorrow, having nothing to do, but get ready to watch the BUCKEYES dominate Wisconsin, I must say I am going to enjoy the weekend!!

I am so looking forward to Sunday, when I have the opportunity to share with the teens what God has given me this week!!!

How about you all...how are you gonna enjoy the weekend??

Thursday, October 2, 2008

Tanner Rock 4 President...YOU VOTE





Todays Blog is simple...leave a comment on which mask you would rather see on Tanner...needless to say he kept wanting to keep McCain on....and ran away from putting the Obama mask on...he kept saying...UH UH...no not dat one daddy...LOL..what can I say the man is wise...now will the country be as well!

Leave your comment as a vote!!

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

A complete chick flick, minus two guys..........yes I saw it??


So last night was a long awaited date night for the Taviano's. Angie was nice and took the kiddos over to her parent's house so I could get my exercising in for the day(now riding 10 miles a day on a bike, that consists of pedaling). After she got home we were in a rush because it was 5:35 and we had to be at the movie theater by 7PM....and we had yet to eat dinner.

We left the house and headed for La Charreada, which used to consist of me eating these crazy fattening nachos, but now have found that they have a nice La Charreada salad, called none other than, La Carreada salad. After eating we stopped at Speedway, so I could get a big water, due to the Movie theater keeping inventory of the pop they sale, by the cups that they use, and allowing you to have a dixie cup to drink water out of!!

We get to the movie at 6:55, walk in, Angie got a large popcorn and in we walked..to a theater half full of ALL WOMEN, and one other guy, who seemed to chuckle at being comfortable after one other guy walked in!!! We sat down, I made some jokes about being there, Angie said...you can go watch something else if you want...but truthfully I would not have wanted to be any other place!!!!

The movie started and for an hour and a half of my life....I really was quite suprised at my reaction to this movie!!! It truly is a great love story..and what it actually has taught me, is that the one you are with, that you are married to...needs to feel the same love for her when you first met her..

When you first meet her, you would go over and beyond whatever is necessary to keep a relationship strong, because you want it to be more than strong you want it to be PERFECT!! So midway through the movie, I grabbed Angie's hand and held it as if we were venturing off on a date back in high school....and she has not heard this yet..but I looked at her and said to God....Man you put me with a keeper, someone I do not deserve, but yet you know I need!!! You see many times in relationships we forget the feeling we had when we first met our spouse, and we become used to coming home, and having dinner there, or everything in order and truly take for granted what God has given you...and believe me I am not writing this because I am in the dog house....I do not think I am even an arm length away from the kennel at this time. I am writing this to show the importance of treasuring what God has given you here on this earth...so if you are married and you are reading this....realize what you have !! If you are dating and you are reading this...realize that this maybe the person that God has for you for life...and you better go above and beyond to make sure this is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you are divorced and are reading this...realize that God has a redemptive mind and wants to place someone in your life that you can love all over again. If you are anyone reading this...realize that a relationship with someone else is only as good as your relationship with Christ!! If your relationship sucks, one of you probably need to get right with God!!!

So I leave you with this!!! She may not see it all the time, and I know I am not perfect...but man I definitely married up!!! and am soooo grateful to have the wife that I do...and I would even go see Nights in Rodanthe a second time!!!



Please Read Ephesians 5:25

Keep it flowing,
Tug

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Be Less of a Ship and More of a Rudder

In a world of who has this, and who has that, the statement above seems to not make any sense, but I will challenge you for the next few moments, to think about who is the captain of your ship, and are you hearing the right voice.
As I was in my quiet time today in the office, I was asking God to give me something that only He can give me…a thought for the day…a challenge to live this week by…a jumpstart to a week of having a clean cup…or in a few words of my friend Becky Tirabassi’s vocabulary…”a burning heart.”

Last week I was sitting at my desk as I normally do, and I was checking my email and something came into my inbox that I did not expect… a three sentence email from someone , who in the short amount of time that I have knew of her has challenged me to something that no one else has been able to do!

You see, a few months have passed since that July evening when we were in San Antonio as a youth group attending IYC….and were attending one of the general sessions, in which this lady that’s last name sounded like an Italian dessert to me was speaking!! Her name was – and still is Becky Tirabassi, and to be real honest with you, I was more pumped that week to see Louie Giglio and Efrem Smith, two people who I have looked up to for some time, and in fact would venture to say that Louie is someone I almost idolize in the sense of speaking. Anyways, up walks this lady onto the stage with blonde short hair, jeans and a pit bull sense that would make even our vice president Sarah Palin look like a yorkie. She talked about her testimony, talked about a burning heart, and challenged us to live a life completely set apart for God. She talked about her trip to Africa, and how she was completely shocked and did not know what to expect about the trip, but how God used her in a miraculous way. Many of you probably do not know my mom, but when I heard this lady, I was like, wow finally someone who is bolder than my mom….I have never seen this until this day!! So I wrote a note to Becky, and talked about my mom’s trip to Africa ,that is going on right now as we speak, and asked her if she could email her and be of some encouragement to her!! She did, and I thought that was cool, and was like, wow someone who challenged me so much as I was at IYC, took the time out of her busy schedule to encourage someone I look up to so much!! I know you are reading this and saying, Tug that is great…you seem to always meet neat people…who is it going to be next month…but this was different, because it did not stop at the conference!!

As I was sitting in my office last week getting ready for the day, a thought came to my head…as I am sure comes to yours from time to time!!! God, in a miraculous way today…please give me some encouragement!!! I need it, I know that I need to listen to you so clearly…but please, can you reach out to me and let me know I am doing this the way YOU want…..

An hour later I hit send/receive in Outlook Express…and in comes this email from a lady that I have been challenged by so much, and I know so many other people have as well.

Tug,
How’s your mom, do you have a burning heart, how far are you from BGSU?
Be encouraged,
Becky
www.changeyourlifedaily.com

Ok, so to you that may seem so stupid…to say you were jump started by that email…or something that small has impacted you so much…
To me the thing that impacted me the most was the way that Becky emailed me…it was sporadic…something just probably popped into her head and said..I need to email that Tug guy…whatever fashion it was…I know she was listening to God…and in the same day that I needed encouragement I got encouragement…in a way that I never thought I would!
This email to me is kind of like the story in Acts 27….please take the time to read…but remember the following statement:
Paul warned, "I see only disaster ahead for cargo and ship—to say nothing of our lives!—if we put out to sea now."

Acts 27 (the message version)
A Storm at Sea
1-2As soon as arrangements were complete for our sailing to Italy, Paul and a few other prisoners were placed under the supervision of a centurion named Julius, a member of an elite guard. We boarded a ship from Adramyttium that was bound for Ephesus and ports west. Aristarchus, a Macedonian from Thessalonica, went with us.
3The next day we put in at Sidon. Julius treated Paul most decently—let him get off the ship and enjoy the hospitality of his friends there.
4-8Out to sea again, we sailed north under the protection of the northeast shore of Cyprus because winds out of the west were against us, and then along the coast westward to the port of Myra. There the centurion found an Egyptian ship headed for Italy and transferred us on board. We ran into bad weather and found it impossible to stay on course. After much difficulty, we finally made it to the southern coast of the island of Crete and docked at Good Harbor (appropriate name!).
9-10By this time we had lost a lot of time. We had passed the autumn equinox, so it would be stormy weather from now on through the winter, too dangerous for sailing. Paul warned, "I see only disaster ahead for cargo and ship—to say nothing of our lives!—if we put out to sea now."
12-11But it was not the best harbor for staying the winter. Phoenix, a few miles further on, was more suitable. The centurion set Paul's warning aside and let the ship captain and the shipowner talk him into trying for the next harbor.
13-15When a gentle southerly breeze came up, they weighed anchor, thinking it would be smooth sailing. But they were no sooner out to sea than a gale-force wind, the infamous nor'easter, struck. They lost all control of the ship. It was a cork in the storm.
16-17We came under the lee of the small island named Clauda, and managed to get a lifeboat ready and reef the sails. But rocky shoals prevented us from getting close. We only managed to avoid them by throwing out drift anchors.
18-20Next day, out on the high seas again and badly damaged now by the storm, we dumped the cargo overboard. The third day the sailors lightened the ship further by throwing off all the tackle and provisions. It had been many days since we had seen either sun or stars. Wind and waves were battering us unmercifully, and we lost all hope of rescue.
21-22With our appetite for both food and life long gone, Paul took his place in our midst and said, "Friends, you really should have listened to me back in Crete. We could have avoided all this trouble and trial. But there's no need to dwell on that now. From now on, things are looking up! I can assure you that there'll not be a single drowning among us, although I can't say as much for the ship—the ship itself is doomed.
23-26"Last night God's angel stood at my side, an angel of this God I serve, saying to me, 'Don't give up, Paul. You're going to stand before Caesar yet—and everyone sailing with you is also going to make it.' So, dear friends, take heart. I believe God will do exactly what he told me. But we're going to shipwreck on some island or other."
27-29On the fourteenth night, adrift somewhere on the Adriatic Sea, at about midnight the sailors sensed that we were approaching land. Sounding, they measured a depth of 120 feet, and shortly after that ninety feet. Afraid that we were about to run aground, they threw out four anchors and prayed for daylight.
30-32Some of the sailors tried to jump ship. They let down the lifeboat, pretending they were going to set out more anchors from the bow. Paul saw through their guise and told the centurion and his soldiers, "If these sailors don't stay with the ship, we're all going down." So the soldiers cut the lines to the lifeboat and let it drift off.
33-34With dawn about to break, Paul called everyone together and proposed breakfast: "This is the fourteenth day we've gone without food. None of us has felt like eating! But I urge you to eat something now. You'll need strength for the rescue ahead. You're going to come out of this without even a scratch!"
35-38He broke the bread, gave thanks to God, passed it around, and they all ate heartily—276 of us, all told! With the meal finished and everyone full, the ship was further lightened by dumping the grain overboard.
39-41At daybreak, no one recognized the land—but then they did notice a bay with a nice beach. They decided to try to run the ship up on the beach. They cut the anchors, loosed the tiller, raised the sail, and ran before the wind toward the beach. But we didn't make it. Still far from shore, we hit a reef and the ship began to break up.
42-44The soldiers decided to kill the prisoners so none could escape by swimming, but the centurion, determined to save Paul, stopped them. He gave orders for anyone who could swim to dive in and go for it, and for the rest to grab a plank. Everyone made it to shore safely.

As this chapter progresses you see the way that Paul was used by God to completely change the way others lives were being lived. He goes up to the centurion ,in the beginning and says "I see only disaster ahead for cargo and ship—to say nothing of our lives!—if we put out to sea now." What he hears is the spirit giving him a complete nudge saying…go tell this person this…and see if they listen. The story goes on, obviously they did not listen, and had to consistently throw things overboard and cut different anchors off to save themselves…ultimately ending in a shipwreck!

You see if the person receiving the advice from Paul, would have been in tune with Christ in the way that Paul was….they would have been a complete ship..but due to them having extra cargo in their lives, they ended up as a complete wreck…in which at the end had them jumping overboard to safety!!
So like this story…if I will take the words, that were about as few as the words that Paul gave the centurion!!! Mine were “Do you have a Burning Heart?” and really listen and seek God…and know that it was from Him…it may not be smooth sailing, but at least I will be heading in the direction that God wants me to!!
So often times we want to be the whole ship when ultimately we need to be the rudder!!!
Be the small vessel that is so powerful…let God move you in ways that you do not see!!!
Keep it Flowing,
Tug

Monday, March 17, 2008

Randy Couture (my favorite) and other christians in MMA

Christianity in Mixed Martial Arts written by Robert Rouseeau

At UFC 68: The Uprising, Randy "The Natural" Couture once again came through in the clutch by beating Tim Sylvia for the UFC Heavyweight Championship Belt. Of course, it's hard to get surprised by a Couture upset victory.
After all, he's come through under similar circumstances on numerous occasions (most recently against Tito Ortiz and Chuck Liddell back in 2003). However, during the after fight interview with Joe Rogan, Couture did surprise- to an extent- by affirming a religious belief that casual fans may not have been aware he held.

"Something was said to me recently," Couture told Rogan. "Why do you believe in America so much? And the answer was (that) there's two people - Jesus Christ, who stepped up and died for our sins, and the American GI that steps up and dies for our freedom on a daily basis. This fight is for them!"

On that same night, Rich "Ace" Franklin fought for the first time since suffering a devastating defeat at the hands of Anderson "The Spider" Silva. The opponent? Jason MacDonald, a man that had won his last six fights. The result?

Franklin dominated the fight and took home a TKO victory after the second round. Following this, everyone knew that Franklin's Christian religious beliefs would be voiced. After all, Franklin had been making his feelings known about God for some time now. And once again, he didn't disappoint.

"I want to give thanks to God (for) seeing me through my training this time," Franklin said.

By the way, we're hardly talking about UFC 68 alone here. Along with this, at UFC 63 on September 23, 2006, Matt Hughes took on B.J. Penn in one of the most talked about rematches in MMA history. In short, this ended up being one of the greatest mixed martial arts battles of all time.

In the first round, Penn showed his ability to shirk Hughes's takedown attempts and out strike the then champion; in the second, Penn almost triangle choked the 'country boy' from Iowa.

But then the third round came. In a fight that looked as if it was decidedly going in the other direction, Hughes staged a furious comeback that eventually ended with the referee pulling him off of Penn as he rained down unanswered punches (Penn was in the crucifix position). Afterwards, Hughes answered Joe Rogan's questions about the sticky situation early on in the fight with a sense of pride and more.

"I knew I had all my guys in my corner; they weren't with me, but they were in my heart. Just like the Lord Jesus Christ was with me, so I had no doubt."

Strong words, huh? By all of them, actually. And the aforementioned are hardly the only UFC mixed martial artists talking about God openly on television. How about Diego Sanchez? How about when the TUF 2 fighters and Rich Franklin were found quoting scripture in the house? It's rampant.

Further, whether you're a believer or not you have to note the obvious.


Those who have strong religious beliefs seem to be doing great in MMA.

Think about the names. Randy Couture - can you say UFC Hall of Famer, anyone? - Matt Hughes (arguably the greatest mixed martial artist of all time), Diego Sanchez (TUF 1 Champion), and Rich Franklin (a former UFC Champion). All of these fighters are clearly believers. Further, they are openly using post fight interviews and more to voice their feelings on religion.

In other words, the aforementioned are some of the best MMA has to offer and also have strong Christian beliefs. This, of course, begs a question.

What does the correlation between success in MMA and strong religious beliefs mean?

The answer will depend on your slant. Perhaps you believe it's just a coincidence (after all, there certainly are highly successful MMA fighters out there that don't note significant religious beliefs after fights). Others may believe that it's because these great fighters believe in something (as opposed to nothing) and that's always a recipe for success. Still others might simply acknowledge that Christianity promotes good living. Plain and simple: good living is good for fighters.

And then, of course, there are many Christians out there that believe Jesus Christ is more than just an idea. Thus, these people may believe that it is actually Jesus Christ - God himself - that is behind these fighters' successes. Regardless, their success is a fact. Further, this combined with their beliefs and the way they run their lives equates to something.

Credibility. And that's important, because whether these fighters are simply opening their hearts to the public or are truly attempting to reach the masses and spread their beliefs, one thing is for sure.

In the end, the UFC stage is a great pulpit.

In sum, Christian beliefs are regularly being professed during Joe Rogan post fight interviews at UFC events. Further, some of the greatest mixed martial artists in the world are those discussing God the loudest on this stage. Is it a coincidence that some of the most successful MMA fighters in the world seem to be the biggest proponents of religion? Probably not. What does it all mean?

Well, that's for you to decide. Here's what we do know, though. This is just another reason why mixed martial arts is a sport of respect and admiration. Whether you're a believer or not, you have to tip your hat to people that could be full of themselves 24-7 but instead choose to stay humble and acknowledge that their successes are not about themselves alone.

After all, no man (or woman) walks alone. That's something we can likely all agree on.